Your Questions Answered

A celebrant is someone trained to create and lead personal, meaningful ceremonies.

When it comes to funerals, that means taking the time to truly understand the life that's been lived - and crafting a service that honours their memory with care, compassion, and respect.

Whether the ceremony includes religious elements, spiritual reflections, or no belief system at all, it will be shaped around what feels right for you and your loved ones.

One of the greatest strengths of a celebrant-led funeral is it's flexibility and personal focus.
It allows you to honour your loved one in a way that truly reflects their life, values, and spirit.

Unlike traditional formats, that may feel impersonal or rigid, a celebrant-led service is shaped around your family's needs and wishes- whether you want something simple and heartfelt, spiritual, faith based, or entirely non-religious.

The aim is to create a meaningful moment of remembrance, offering comfort to those present while celebrating a life well lived.

This will be included as part of the costs you pay to the Funeral Director.

As part of the process, I'll arrange a meeting or home visit to gently gather stories, memories, and details that help shape a service that feels truly personal. Some areas you may wish to reflect on in advance include:

-Where your loved one was born and grew up

-Siblings or close family members

-Childhood memories or school days.

-Partners, children, grandchildren and special friendships

-Military services or national service

-Career paths and jobs they loved (or didn't)

-Hobbies, passions, and groups they were part of

-Milestone events and achievements

-Musical tastes or favourite songs

-Memorable quotes, sayings or stories

-Anything they might have said they'd want (or wouldn't want!)

-Who else might wish to speak or take part on the day

You don't need to have all the answers - we'll piece together something meaningful together

That's entirely up to you. Many families choose to leave the whole service in my hands, which is completely natural - especially during such a difficult time.

However, if a family member or friend would like to say a few words, share a memory, read a poem, or offer a reflection, that can be a beautiful addition. We'll talk this through when we meet, and I'll help guide and support anyone who wants to be involved.
If you'd like to include hymns, prayers, or any spiritual elements, just let me know - everything can be shaped around your wishes.

There is always a natural flow to the ceremony, but whether or not you'd like a printed Order of Service is entirely up to you.

Some families find it helpful to offer guests something to follow along with - especially if hymns, readings, or participation are involved. Others prefer to keep things simple and informal.

I'll guide you through the options, so we can decide what feels right for you and your loved ones. Your chosen funeral director will also discuss Order of Service with you and arrange printing. I'll liaise with them and ensure content is accurate.

Absolutely, I can lead a service or celebration of life wherever feels right for you - whether that's at home, in a community hall, outdoors, or somewhere deeply personal.

A crematorium isn't your only option, and many families find comfort in creating a more relaxed, meaningful space to gather, reflect, and honour their loved one.

Not all celebrants in Scotland can legally marry you - but I can.

As a registered TLC Marriage Officiant , I'm authorised to conduct fully legal wedding ceremonies, anywhere in Scotland. 

There's no beliefs systems to follow, nothing to sign up to, and no need to make a separate trip to the registry office - all you need to do is submit your M10 forms in advance.

Your ceremony can be entirely shaped around you - your values, your story, your setting. I'll help you make it personal, meaningful, and legally binding.

Pretty much anywhere you like!
Whether it's a beach, a back garden, a castle, or a cosy woodland spot - as long as the space is safe and accessible, it can be the perfect place to say "I do"

There are a few ​practical things to consider - like how guests will get there, whether you'll need the landowner's permission, and what facilities are available. If you've already chosen a venue or have a wedding planner, that's great. If not, I'll help guide you through your options and offer as much advice and support as you need.

There are so many beautiful and meaningful rituals you can include in your ceremony - too many to list them all! Some favourites include handfasting, lighting a unity candle, placing vows on an oathing stone, sand ceremonies, and tree plantings.

Whether your honouring cultural traditions, creating something symbolic with your children, or marking a personal moment in your own way, we'll find something that reflects you. If it's safe, legal, and meaningful - we can include it.