That's entirely up to you. Many families choose to leave the whole service in my hands, which is completely natural - especially during such a difficult time.
However, if a family member or friend would like to say a few words, share a memory, read a poem, or offer a reflection, that can be a beautiful addition. We'll talk this through when we meet, and I'll help guide and support anyone who wants to be involved.
If you'd like to include hymns, prayers, or any spiritual elements, just let me know - everything can be shaped around your wishes.