Scattering someone's ashes can be a deeply personal way to say goodbye. You might have a place in mind that holds special memories, or you may still be thinking about what would feel right.
There is no need to rush. A ceremony can take place when you and your family feel ready, whether that is shortly after the funeral or some time later.
Choosing a place
Fife has many beautiful coastal and countryside locations, but it is important to check who owns or manages your chosen spot before making arrangements.
Fife Coast & Countryside Trust advises that ashes should only be scattered with the landowner's agreement and that no permanent marker can be placed at the scattering location. The Trust can also help identify the landowner.
You can read their guidance here:
Fife Coast & Countryside Trust - Celebrations
It is also worth considering access, the weather and whether everyone attending will feel comfortable reaching the location.
Making the moment personal
An ashes-scattering ceremony can be a small, quiet gathering with just a few words, or an opportunity for family and friends to share memories.
You might include a favourite poem, a piece of music, a reading or simply time to pause together. Some people want to speak themselves, others feel more comfortable having someone speak on their behalf.
How can I help
I'm Susan Paul, an independent celebrant with In Safe Hands, based in Dundee and supporting families across Fife and the surrounding areas.
I can help you shape and lead a ceremony that reflects the person you are remembering, giving you space to be with your family while I guide the words and the farewell.
If you would like to talk about an ashes-scattering or burial-of-ashes ceremony, you are welcome to get in touch.
Call - 07986710623
Email - hello@susanpaulcelebrant.co.uk
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